BY KELVIN DANLADI ISA 

The two key words in this topic is "parenting " and "parents ". Parenting or child rearing is the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. Parenting also refers to the intricacies of raising a child and not exclusively for a biological relationship. Parenting can also be explained as a great deal of consistency and routine, which gives children a sense of control. In other words, parenting, most particularly good parenting, is a phenomenon that focuses on developing independence in children, which involves a style that considers children's age and stage of development. While a parent, is a caregiver of the offspring in their own specie. Biologically, parents are the first degree relatives, and have 50% genetic meet. Some parents may be adoptive, who nurture and raise an offspring, but are not biologically related to the child. But in a very simple term, a parent is an individual, either a mother or father, that a child always learns from. Therefore, the good or bad upbringing of a child depends on the parent. In general term, good parenting parents is the act possessed by a parent, in bringing up their children into responsible and God fearing men and women in the future. 
    Some of the skills or qualities that can aid a parent to be of good parenting are; by actively listening to what your kids have to say, show good judgment and stick to your rules, be a role model and good person, stay in control  of your emotions, and show lots of love during quality time. This means that, for a parent to be able to be of good parenting to his children, he or she must always have time for his or her children, by making it a priority to put away distractions, but to be on top of what their kids are hoping for, what they fear, and what they may feel anxious about. And thereby, teaching them the right thing to always do. Another key factor that can aid a parent to good parenting, is by showing good judgment, and sticking to your rules. This means that, parents are expected to always teach their children the difference between right and wrong. Not only do you need to teach these lessons to your kids, you need to follow these rules too. This means that, you may not always be right, and will need to fess up. But there will be times when you will say no to your kids, and mean it. Then there will be other times when you have made a mistake and you will change your mind. But just be clear to say "I was wrong ". And why you changed your mind. We all make mistakes, but when the punishment fits the crime, you must stick to your guns. Kids can sniff out a hypocrite really quick. Rules must be enforced after they are made. And whatever rules are set in your house you need to follow them as well, unless you have a really good reason why you are excluded. And with this, a parent can be able to be of good parenting to his or her children. Another key factor that can aid equip a parent to good parenting, is by being a good role model and good person to your children. This means that, for a parent to be able to be of good example to his or her children, he or she should not do anything in front of their children that they would not want them to do. If you find yourself exhibiting behavior that you don't want to be mimicked by your child, then its a sign you should change how you react in certain situations. This is because your kids are watching you head off to work everyday. It's important that they see you managing this all to the best of your ability. You aren't trying to reach perfection, you are teaching them hardwork, honesty, and most of all, love. And with this, you can be of good parenting to your children. In addition, good parenting can also be exhibited by parents to children, by simply showing love to their children in their quality time, and by staying in control of your emotions by always teaching them to forgive even if they are offended. And with all these skills and qualities, a parent can be able to be of good parenting to his or her children. 
    In conclusion, a good parenting parent is a parent that tirelessly make research and experiments by working to the best of their ability toward finding results that will bring up their children into good, honest, disciplined and responsible men and women of tomorrow. This is because, parents are the second God of the children, and the child's future depends on the parent. 


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